Lobmeyer Life

Coaching & Mentoring

Learn to respectfully put yourself in your centre and free yourself from patterns, delusions and traumatic experiences that stand in the way of being the best version of yourself. Get away from thinking you have to do something for others to make them feel better. Unless you’re okay with it.

Lobmeyer Life

Coaching & Mentoring

Learn to respectfully put yourself in your centre and free yourself from patterns, delusions and traumatic experiences that stand in the way of being the best version of yourself. Get away from thinking you have to do something for others to make them feel better. Unless you’re okay with it.

Awareness, structure & direction

My service should help you to free yourself from feelings of guilt, bad conscience, lack of success, hopelessness, unforgiveness, lack of ideas and negative feelings. With me you can question your life patterns, rediscover your own direction and structure, your abilities and joy in life.

My Success factors

This is how I can ensure your success in the long term:

For as long as I can remember, I have been exploring life, learning from my own mistakes, getting back up, changing myself and my environment. Life has taught me that nobody is perfect. What I can offer you is politeness, honesty, creativity, persistence, joy of life and a wide range of life experiences and methods. Be assured that working with me will give you power over your life, fulfilment and security. I’m placing you at your centre!

Performing environment analysis

In this step I will help you to become aware of where you bring yourself into imbalance and torture yourself. Why others criticise you and why you wonder why others always have success and happiness. Why and for what purpose these roles are in your life and what they mean.

Accepting personal responsibility

Dissolving dependencies is not easy. Do you think you are dependent on your job, relationships or parents? Dependence is the breeding ground for anxious thinking and feeling and leads to a stagnation which can manifest itself in blockades of action. Not being able to do something yourself, not being able to accomplish something without someone, or not being worth anything without someone are examples of this.

Releasing internal blockages

An internal blockage can be recognised, for example, by feelings of rejection, by quickly putting oneself in a defensive position or by being unyielding. It is unclear how one can change something. When we release your inner blockages, you become aware of the issue and can release these blockages yourself, if you wish.

Living self-acceptance

Practicing taking responsibility will lead you exactly where you are right now, and you will see what the next logical step is to improve your quality of life.
You will leave jealousy, envy, greed, exaggerated goodness, self-rejection, self-suppression, self-abandonment, dissatisfaction with your appearance and profession, lack of awareness behind. You decide to go through life as part of the bigger picture.

My areas of business

How may I help you?

Insights

Self-awareness is the first step in the change process. Not until you realise that

  • pathological adherence to dependencies
  • pathological rigid beliefs
  • unprocessed traumatic experiences
  • senseless indignation and conflict impotence
  • family patterns of suffering

have a significant impact on your reality,

1) the chance of a new life opens up for you.
2) you recognise the causes of the recurring patterns and thus pave the way for change.

Decisions

A decision for yourself does not automatically mean a decision against someone else. Decisions for oneself should lead to emotional fulfilment and be fundamentally filled with wisdom. If you define yourself through something other than yourself, it is difficult to make good decisions. They are also decisions to say goodbye to anger, envy, jealousy and material pursuits and to steadfastly follow their own individual path.

Results

We achieve better results by transforming the fear of our own happiness, respecting the needs of others and staying away from people who make you feel envious, malicious, hateful and bored. We achieve better results by questioning our relationships and changing them if necessary. The basis of happiness is happy and successful relationships.

Integrity in thinking, feeling and acting liberates from a guilty conscience, fear and self-suppression. Why? Because you don’t leave anything hidden anymore and you achieve your victories.
Get out of rejection, effort and compulsion!

Stefan Lobmeyer